"It’s true: in the moment, **arguments perform a crucial—and underappreciated—job for us by waving a flag that something important to us is being endangered**, whether it’s a personal preference, a hunch about the best strategy for meeting a shared goal, or a core value of ours." (~[Location 72](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=72)~) -- [[202308170953 — AtN — See Arguments as opportunities for growth]] *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[conflict]], [[relationships]] **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]