"**Let’s begin by categorizing arguments as productive or unproductive**. If we get into an argument and come away with a better understanding of what’s going on or a better plan for what to do next, that not only cancels out the negative emotions but turns them into positive ones!"" (~[Location 124](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=124)~) -- [[202308170953 — AtN — See Arguments as opportunities for growth]] and [[202308170954 — AtN — Productive disagreement can be a superpower]] *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[conflict]], [[collaboration]], [[relationships]] **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]