"Similarly, **when I bribe my son to clean his room with the promise of more screen time, will the virtues of cleanliness and personal responsibility grow in his heart**, leading him to clean his room without prompting in the future? Nope." (~[Location 220](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=220)~) -- *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[influence]], [[incentives]], [[teaching-anecdotes]], [[parenting]], **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]