"Disagreements always have at least one of these conflicts going on, but some will have a blend of two or all three. **When that happens, asking “What is this about?” can help us separate these different arguments and then agree on which one should be addressed first**." (~[Location 300](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=300)~) -- [[202308170954 — AtN — Productive disagreement can be a superpower]] *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[mindfulness]], [[conflict]], [[collaboration]], [[relationships]] **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]