"There’s one more realm to mention. **Sometimes we think we’re disagreeing with someone and don’t realize that we’re actually arguing with a shadow projection of our own fears and imaginings—and our worst fears at that**." (~[Location 303](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=303)~) *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[influence]], [[mindfulness]], [[self-reflection]], [[anxiety]], [[collaboration]], [[conflict]], **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]] **See Also** -- - [[202308170954 — AtN — Productive disagreement can be a superpower]] - [[202308181107 — AtN — Staying calm within disagreements can be a superpower]]