"**The antidote to arguing with a projection is to always know whom you’re disagreeing with, make sure they’re a real human being in the conversation with you, and then actually listen to their argument rather than putting words in their mouth**". (~[Location 307](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=307)~) -- [[202308181228 — AtN — Listening well can be a superpower]], [[202308170954 — AtN — Productive disagreement can be a superpower]] and [[202308181107 — AtN — Staying calm within disagreements can be a superpower]] *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[mindfulness]], [[anxiety]], [[self-reflection]], [[listening]], [[collaboration]], [[conflict]] **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]