* "If you both settle on a question about what is true, you can ask: **Is there a source of information we both trust that could give us the answer to this question?** What qualifies as a trustworthy source? * If you both settle on a question about what is meaningful, you can ask: Why is this important to us? **What past experiences led to us having these preferences or values?** * If you both settle on a question about what is useful, you can ask: **What would happen if we didn’t do anything?** How confident are we in the outcome of these different proposed actions?" (~[Location 609](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=609)~) *** #### See Also - [[202308181107 — AtN — Staying calm within disagreements can be a superpower]] - [[202308170954 — AtN — Productive disagreement can be a superpower]] *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[anxiety]], [[mindfulness]], [[asking-questions]], [[collaboration]], [[mediation]] **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]