"The way we argue is no longer working for us, and we need new conversational and mental habits to prepare us for today’s conversational climate. The first three voices attempt to resolve conflict, because conflict is seen as a problem. **The voice of possibility seeks to make conflict productive, in the same way that a skilled gardener realizes that weeds are merely unloved flowers, and sometimes those unloved flowers produce sweet, sweet berries that can make delicious pies**." (~[Location 942](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B081J97HLQ&location=942)~) -- *** **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[voice-of-power]], [[voice-of-reason]], [[voice-of-possibility]], [[juicy-sentences]], [[collaboration]], [[leadership]], **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]