“**Speak for yourself. Don’t speculate about others**, especially groups that you don’t belong to. Instead, seek out a respectable member of any group you might otherwise speculate about and invite them to your table to speak for themselves. Listen generously.” *** **Steps for Productive Disagreement:** - [[202308171139 — Q]] - [[202308180930 — Q]] - [[202308180931 — Q]] - [[202308180932 — Q]] - [[202308180933 — Q]] - [[202308180934 — Q]] - [[202308180935 — Q]] - [[202308180936 — Q]] *** #### See Also - [[202308180913 — AtN — You have the ability to reframe scenarios to protect your mental health]] --- **Tags** — [[quotes]], [[in-group-out-group-bias]], [[envy]], **Source** — [[202308170952 — B — Why Are We Yelling]]