"The same holds for memories: **Just as you’re trying to form memories of times with your kids, it makes sense to want your kids to form memories of you**. Both sets of memories will yield a [[memory dividend]]—one stream of dividends for you and one for your kids. So **how do you want your kids to remember you?** That’s just another way of asking: **What kinds of experiences do you want them to have with you?"** ([Location 1140](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B07T5LSF1J&location=1140)) --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[parenting]] , [[time-value-of-spending]] , [[essentialism]] , **Source** -- [[202408061202 - B - Die With Zero]]