"Where [[Isocrates]] and [[William Shakespeare|Shakespeare]] wished us **to be self-contained, self-motivated, and ruled by principle, most of us have been trained to do the opposite. Our cultural values almost try to make us dependent on validation, entitled, and ruled by our emotions**. "For a generation, parents and teachers have focused on building up everyone’s self-esteem. From there, the themes of our gurus and public figures **have been almost exclusively aimed at inspiring, encouraging, and assuring us that we can do whatever we set our minds to**." --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[extrinsic-motivation]], [[outcome-bias]], [[personal-values]], [[character]], [[personal-values]], [[intrinsic-motivation]], [[discipline]] **Source** -- [[202409161103 - B - Ego is the Enemy]]