"But in our lives, **when our worst instincts are in control, we dally**. We don’t act like [[Demosthenes]], we act frail and are powerless to make ourselves better. **We may be able to articulate a problem, even potential solutions, but then weeks, months, or sometimes years later, the problem is still there**. "Or it’s gotten worse. **As though we expect someone else to handle it**, as though we honestly believe that there is a chance of obstacles unobstacle-ing themselves. We’ve all done it. Said: “I am so [overwhelmed, tired, stressed, busy, blocked, outmatched].” And then what do we do about it? Go out and party. Or treat ourselves. Or sleep in. Or wait. "**It feels better to ignore or pretend**. But you know deep down that that isn’t going to truly make it any better. You’ve got to act. And you’ve got to start now." ([Location 897](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B00IX49OS4&location=897)) --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[bias-to-action]], [[adversity]], [[fud]], [[anxiety]], [[perceived-threats]], [[problem-solving]] **Source** -- [[202409180132 - B - The Obstacle is the Way]]