"For the rest of his short life, [[John F. Kennedy|Kennedy]] worried that people would learn the wrong lessons from his actions during [[the Missile Crisis]]. **It wasn’t that he had stood up to the [[Soviets]] and threatened them with superior weapons until they backed down**. Instead, calm and rational leadership had prevailed over rasher, reckless voices. "The crisis was resolved thanks to a mastery of his own thinking, and the thinking of those underneath him—and it was these traits that America would need to call on repeatedly in the years to come. **The lesson was one not of force but of the power of patience, alternating confidence and humility, foresight and presence, empathy and unbending conviction, restraint and toughness, and quiet solitude combined with wise counsel**." ([Location 326](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B07QY3CZ9L&location=326)) --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[discipline]], [[mindfulness]], [[self-control]], [[patience]], [[confidence]], [[humility]], [[empathy]], [[resilience]], **Source** -- [[202409180133 - B - Stillness is the Key]]