"[[Epicurus]], again the supposed hedonist, once said that “**sex has never benefited any man, and it’s a marvel if it hasn’t injured him**.” He came up with a good test anytime he felt himself being pulled by a strong desire: **What will happen to me if I get what I want? How will I feel after?**" ([Location 1281](https://readwise.io/to_kindle?action=open&asin=B07QY3CZ9L&location=1281)) --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[frugality]], [[personal-values]], [[self-control]], [[character]], [[lust]], **Source** -- [[202409180133 - B - Stillness is the Key]]