"I’d like to propose that parents who want to cultivate grit in their children abide by the Hard Thing Rule and, in addition, the Fun Thing Rule. **Ask your kids to do something that will teach them, through experience, deliberate practice and resilience**.
"But **also make sure they’re doing things that they find interesting and enjoyable**, even if it doesn’t seem that they could ever lead to anything more serious.
"Why? Because the ultimate goal is to grow up to develop a calling—a fun thing that is also a hard thing"
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**Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[hard-thing-rule]], [[parenting]], [[curiosity]], [[habits]], [[resilience]],
**Source** -- [[20241030 - B - Grit]]