"**Perfectionism is the voice of the oppressor, the enemy of the people**,’ the infinitely more sensible essayist [[Anne Lamott]] observes in her book on writing, Bird by Bird. ‘**It will keep you cramped and insane your whole life … perfectionism is based on the obsessive belief that if you run carefully enough, hitting each stepping stone just right, you won’t have to die. The truth is that you will die anyway and that a lot of people who aren’t even looking at their feet are going to do a whole lot better than you, and have a lot more fun while they’re doing it**.’ I’m not saying I’m any good at following this advice. But it is really, really good advice." --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[life-advice]], [[perfectionism]], [[progressing-slowly]], [[acceptance]], [[character]], [[happiness]], [[momento-mori]], [[envy]] **Source** -- [[20241114100017 - B - Help!]]