"If firstborns tend to be first at everything, that’s probably because parents expect the first child to be first at everything. **In our family, I expected both Susan and Janet to be good at what they wanted to do, and if they weren’t good at it, they tried again**." --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[expectations]], [[parenting]], **Source** -- [[20250101093750 - B - How to Raise Successful People]]