"As NVC replaces our old patterns of defending, withdrawing, or attacking in the face of judgment and criticism, **we come to perceive ourselves and others, as well as our intentions and relationships, in a new light**. Resistance, defensiveness, and violent reactions are minimized. When we focus on clarifying what is being observed, felt, and needed rather than on diagnosing and judging, we discover the depth of our own compassion. Through its emphasis on deep listening—to ourselves as well as to others—NVC fosters respect, attentiveness, and empathy and engenders a mutual desire to give from the heart." --- **Tags** -- [[quotes]], [[mindfulness]], [[crucial-conversations]], [[listening]], [[non-violent communication]], [[202308180913 — AtN — You have the ability to reframe scenarios to protect your mental health]], **Source** -- [[251115105628 - B - Nonviolent Communication]]